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Monday, January 4, 2010
7:21:00 PM ● i dun really get it... what really u wan from me..? what have i done to you..? y me?me?me?m? ...y?y?y?y?.. Sometimes, just dun really understand human too much.. they really inhuman...just i really dun get it what they want from me.. human are human....they dun appreciate in watever we do them..all i just know,that they want them to have the appreciate wat they do to ppl, infact, wat we did to them was a waste...y this type of ppl still live in this world..?n duh, it life...just i hope someone had the sincerety to accept what we did to them....this how i feel right now...im hurt by lots sa ppl now...y am i being too good with ppl arnd me..?well, tell you some stories... Adam, david n rachel was a close friends....they are close...like, everytin they share...almost all..huhm...well, got this one fine day, the both guys went to some place to meet rachel...but infact, rachel didnt talk to bth of thm...they bth felt being left out...haiz...(if i were thm, i cnfrm pissed off..) yah, back...haa...rachel didnt talk, n they bth decided to leave the place..huhm...well, they felt pathetic to make their way there....just a waste of their time...huhm, they bth make faces...well, they bth like complaining n complaining..!haaha...lame..well, i guess, thy headed somewhere to relieves..haaha, but im not quite sure where they bth gone to..just i hope it could be the right place for thm to relax..!precisely, my predict told me, they discuss, sometin the same point they unhidden their truth..!yeah, n atlast...adam feels busted....what on earth is happening to you..?how could you...?huhmz...it been long time enough..! well, in patient, they accept what happen.. this is wat i feels right now..; Most children at some point in their lives experience being excluded from a party or suddenly being ignored by friends. Being rejected or repeatedly ignored are painful for a child. Be there to listen to your child with acceptance and compassion. Too often children learn from peers and adults to ignore or discount their own feelings. They may think there's nothing you, as their parent, can do to help them. Help your child maintain his self-esteem in the face of this emotional blow. You don't want him to take on the mindset of victim, however. Reminding him of all of the unique and wonderful parts of his personality can be a big help. Make a point of spending more time with him than usual; your emotional support and belief in him can be very helpful at this time. Encourage him always to be himself and not try to fit in by trying to be exactly like everyone else. Was it because she doesn't wear clothes with designer labels? In this case, does she want to continue being friends with kids who use clothes to measure a person's value? Or, if it was a party invitation, did the rejection come about simply because the party giver was limited to inviting a small number of guests? As a parent, you need to walk a fine line by taking seriously all that you child says while not blowing the incident out of proportion, thereby encouraging her to feel victimized. Help her to feel empowered to deal with this incident on her own. And let her make her own decision about how to handle it. Help your child think about how to handle this rejection in positive ways. Maybe it can provide an opportunity to get to know other classmates who seem interesting. Find other outlets for his talents and emotions; these could include volunteer work at a local elementary's after-school program or lessons for something he's always wanted to learn such as cartoon drawing or fishing—anything that brings him positive feedback and reinforcement through relationships with others outside his circle of friends. It can also help children to read stories about how other kids have handled rejection. (See suggested books under Additional Resources.) While encouraging your child to solve this problem on his own, you want to. If the experience of being shunned or excluded continues or escalates into overt bullying, do not downplay the situation. At that point, it's time to contact school authorities to protect your child's emotional and physical safety. Just my life is shagged right now..aftr wat happen to me.. im down with several thoughts...too many tings in my mind.. " i love thee in two ways: one selfishness. the other a love that is worthy of thee it is selfish love when i spend all my time thinking exclusively of thee and no other the other kind of love when the veil is raised by th, thus revealing thyself to me. neither way am i praiseworthy, in both the praise is all thine." PutraTapha |
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